People wonder how I connect to people who have passed over and its quite simply when ever they want to, even after you die you live on and its not always they will come to you they will come to you when you least expect them to and not just me even to you also, have you ever noticed a white feather? heard a certain song on the radio? smelled that lovely sweet perfume? these are all signs that I get when connecting to passed loved ones but its not when I ask them to it is on their terms as well. Usually spirit is quite a funny place and you might have other people trying to get through also which is lovely but confusing also as I'm trying to pass on a message to just one person but I will hear other people speaking to me so it gets very confusing. Unless I get a specific message I will not pass it on and to some that is a disappointment but I only can give what I am hearing from Spirit so its best get a proper message then a confused one.